Some things just creep up on you

Alternative title: This had been bugging me for some time.

I’ve noticed a definite change this week, it’s been a gradual thing over the last seven days but when I come home from work I’ve realised I’m actually looking forward to seeing my little girl.

This I think is directly related to her own developments – she continues to take more and more interest in her surroundings and shows more ranges of facial expressions. Smiles are quite common now and it’s great to come home, pick up our baby and get a big grin from her – the troubles of the day really do melt away.

But on top of her making me happy with her smiles and gurgles – to finally get some feedback after weeks of give give give, I’m relived in myself that those feelings are coming through, that the balance is beginning to be addressed.

It’s all such a slow process that it’s hard to notice. One incident which was quite obvious was a few days ago we went for a walk in a nearby nature reserve. It was a council run reserve and although cheap, was rather disappointing. But I found myself getting very frustrated by bugs and insects flying about, and very protective of our baby if any got near her. One landed on her face and I was infuriated – how dare you land innocently on my baby’s delicate skin! My reaction was so excessive I stepped back and thought “woah, easy there!” After all the self doubt about lack of feelings for my baby, here I am showing rage at a harmless bug!

That made me realise that of course I care a great deal about her, and would do anything to keep her safe. And to me, that sounds fairly normal fatherly behaviour.

There’s hope for this sane dad yet…

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2 responses to “Some things just creep up on you”

  1. mutteringsofafool says :

    It’s hard isn’t it when they’re really small and don’t give any back, no smiles or anything. It soon changes though, I think from 6 months on was when it really started for me and now at 14 months is hilarious

    • Sane Dad Blog says :

      I feel very lucky if it was six months before you got any feedback! But I think you do find yourself claiming any hint of a smirk as a full blown smile – “she smiled! She appreciates what I’m doing! She’s not just a screaming pet rock!” 😉

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